GETTING RID OF IDEAL MODELS
Deidealize is to bring the experience of the divine plan to the human field. Divinization of the other or of the relationship is related to being passionate, but we not stayed indefinitely in this state. Everyday`s life slows the fire of passion and here we are back to be real struggle for sustainin...
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| Formato: | artículo |
| Estado: | Versión publicada |
| Fecha de publicación: | 2010 |
| País: | Brasil |
| Recursos: | Sociedade Brasileira de Estudos em Sexualidade Humana (SBRASH) |
| Repositorio: | Revista Brasileira de Sexualidade Humana (Online) |
| Idioma: | portugués |
| OAI Identifier: | oai:ojs.rbsh.org.br:article/263 |
| Acesso em linha: | https://www.rbsh.org.br/revista_sbrash/article/view/263 |
| Access Level: | acceso abierto |
| Palavra-chave: | Paixão Relação amorosa Prazer Passion Loving relationship Pleasure |
| Resumo: | Deidealize is to bring the experience of the divine plan to the human field. Divinization of the other or of the relationship is related to being passionate, but we not stayed indefinitely in this state. Everyday`s life slows the fire of passion and here we are back to be real struggle for sustaining the quality of the relationship. This real struggle assumes more effective maintenance of the flame than when tere was an uncontrollable impulsive satisfaction inherent to being in love. Passion is a wonderful and interim state. Passionate experiences integrate happiness projects. In loving experiences, as in everything, we want our happiness. But, it is not predictable, manageable, we can not pocess it and we cannot seize it. It is not the size of our dream. Realistically, happiness does not exist in itself. What we know from it are the happy times we live – moments that are metaphors of the brave. |
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